BACK IN BOMBAY :) :)
back in my beloved bombay. this is where life really feels like life. bombay is where everyone is at their best. even in terms of sex. have found bombay men regardless of their origins.
ok heres a summary of the sexual talents of men from around india. these are generalisations based on my experience. delhi men are so wannabe and so despo that they will get hard just by touching you and shoot their stuff on just seeing you naked. delhi men are strong and all but they arent really very talented. bangalore men are very diffident. most men there are nice mama's boys who have found a nice paying job. so sleeping with a 30 year old bangalorean is like sleeping with a 15 year old bombayite. chennai men are just too old fashioned to be fun. ask khushboo. calcutta men are confident and all. they think they are good at sex and thats usually half the battle. calcutta is a much more open place than all other cities barring bombay. similarly calcutta men are also best amongst the rest.
but really no place like bombay. bombay has the most active s&m circuit. in bombay it is easy to find a good looking guy who will respect boundaries in a one night sdtand or a no-strings-attached fling. for me getting a guy for a one night stand is easy anywhere. but in all other places, there have been folks who want something more. they want exclusivity. bombay guys are mature. bombay is the easiest place in india for someone like me.
so let me talk about my first 'experience' in bombay. it was a neighbour. i had just moved to bombay and had rented a flat with 2 other girls. this neighbour lived on the same floor. he was a freelance writer. about 40-ish. his wife had paralysis from the waist below. he took care of her, staying at home. his wife was from the same town as me, so we had a lot of common contacts. i would spend a lot of time in their house. he was so devoted to her, so caring, that it was enough to melt any girl's heart. plus he wasnt bad looking either. had a decent body, very rare for indian ,men in their 40s. had seen him wearing just a towel a few times when i was talking to his wife. so i was ripe for the taking.
guess he realised it and made his move one night. had watched a movie with him and his wife on their TV. i still remember it was 'amar akbar anthony'. midway into the movie his wife was sleepy so he took her to their bedroom. when he came out he sat next to me. we started talking. i was wearing some very short shorts. out of the blue he put his hands on my thigh and started carressing. i got goose bumps. he said he missed the goose bumps. his touch had made me so desparate that i lent forward and kissed him. very soon our clothes came off and he had sex with me. he went at me like a hungry kid. it was amazing. after that we did it pretty regularly but always at my house. a few days later i learnt something very surprising. he had told his wife about having sex with me after the very first night. and she didnt mind. apparently they had an understanding. she realised she couldnt fulfil his needs so he could sleep with others as long as he was honest. in fact sometimes she liked to watch.
it is because of this that he told me about the deal. he said his wife wanted to watch us doing it. at that time was just a kid. hehe. so i found the whole thing very weird and said no. didnt sleep with him either. sort of broke up. met him a few months back in delhi by chance at CP. he was with a lady whom he introduced as a friend. his wife was in a coma. he'd come to delhi to meet a publisher. was camping very close to my place. thought about suggesting a meet-up to relive the old days, but sensed the woman with him was a bit possessive. so dropped it.
now that i am back in bombay maybe i'll pay him a visit. and maybe even go to gorai closeby.
ok heres a summary of the sexual talents of men from around india. these are generalisations based on my experience. delhi men are so wannabe and so despo that they will get hard just by touching you and shoot their stuff on just seeing you naked. delhi men are strong and all but they arent really very talented. bangalore men are very diffident. most men there are nice mama's boys who have found a nice paying job. so sleeping with a 30 year old bangalorean is like sleeping with a 15 year old bombayite. chennai men are just too old fashioned to be fun. ask khushboo. calcutta men are confident and all. they think they are good at sex and thats usually half the battle. calcutta is a much more open place than all other cities barring bombay. similarly calcutta men are also best amongst the rest.
but really no place like bombay. bombay has the most active s&m circuit. in bombay it is easy to find a good looking guy who will respect boundaries in a one night sdtand or a no-strings-attached fling. for me getting a guy for a one night stand is easy anywhere. but in all other places, there have been folks who want something more. they want exclusivity. bombay guys are mature. bombay is the easiest place in india for someone like me.
so let me talk about my first 'experience' in bombay. it was a neighbour. i had just moved to bombay and had rented a flat with 2 other girls. this neighbour lived on the same floor. he was a freelance writer. about 40-ish. his wife had paralysis from the waist below. he took care of her, staying at home. his wife was from the same town as me, so we had a lot of common contacts. i would spend a lot of time in their house. he was so devoted to her, so caring, that it was enough to melt any girl's heart. plus he wasnt bad looking either. had a decent body, very rare for indian ,men in their 40s. had seen him wearing just a towel a few times when i was talking to his wife. so i was ripe for the taking.
guess he realised it and made his move one night. had watched a movie with him and his wife on their TV. i still remember it was 'amar akbar anthony'. midway into the movie his wife was sleepy so he took her to their bedroom. when he came out he sat next to me. we started talking. i was wearing some very short shorts. out of the blue he put his hands on my thigh and started carressing. i got goose bumps. he said he missed the goose bumps. his touch had made me so desparate that i lent forward and kissed him. very soon our clothes came off and he had sex with me. he went at me like a hungry kid. it was amazing. after that we did it pretty regularly but always at my house. a few days later i learnt something very surprising. he had told his wife about having sex with me after the very first night. and she didnt mind. apparently they had an understanding. she realised she couldnt fulfil his needs so he could sleep with others as long as he was honest. in fact sometimes she liked to watch.
it is because of this that he told me about the deal. he said his wife wanted to watch us doing it. at that time was just a kid. hehe. so i found the whole thing very weird and said no. didnt sleep with him either. sort of broke up. met him a few months back in delhi by chance at CP. he was with a lady whom he introduced as a friend. his wife was in a coma. he'd come to delhi to meet a publisher. was camping very close to my place. thought about suggesting a meet-up to relive the old days, but sensed the woman with him was a bit possessive. so dropped it.
now that i am back in bombay maybe i'll pay him a visit. and maybe even go to gorai closeby.
posted by Urban Girl at 2:09 PM
4 Comments:
Wow, did you flatter us guys here in the good old City of Joy!
I guess now that you've all 'grown up', you can meet up with freelance writer and do what you wanna do. I'm sure he'll be in for a surprise after so many years. :)
so the seeds were sown back in 2005. well, you have worked really hard in 4 years and your naked delhi daredevilry just rocks! you have becum my fav. dick trainer in past 2 days :)
Dear US,
by chance i clicked on the link at FSI, and here am I, in front of my newfound Sheherezade of th 1001 nights........ i am completely immersed in your erotica!
Salut to you fo your kind words about Calcutta men, we now have a hard responsibilty of living up to the reputation keeping up to your exacting standards ;-)
I came here after someone i know suggested your blogs were really unique. This was one of the first stories i read of yours and i want you to know that i really appreciate you sharing your experiences.
However i wished you'd tone down on the stereotypes, your story becoming severely off putting from there onwards.
On the other hand i just finished with delhi daredevilry and it put me in a happy place all over again.I really enjoyed that piece and you have a genuine way of making the reader feel like they're right there with you :)
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